FERTILITY IS YOUR BIRTH RIGHT.
MOTHERHOOD IS IN YOU.
Hey beautiful soul, I see you…..
It’s a been a good few months, or perhaps a good few years since you and your partner decided to start a new family..or just simply expand your already existing one. But something has gone wrong - maybe you have suffered a miscarriage, or maybe you have been trying for years without any success.
Either way, the pain is real, and it eats away at your heart every day. You are left with nothing but pain, stress, fears and disappointment.
But I also know that you are a very determined AND SMART woman…and if I guess rightly you haven’t sat on your hands for too long WAITING FOR THINGS TO HAPPEN.
You’ve probably completely changed your lifestyle by adding new supplements to your diet, eating SUPER healthy food, exercising regularly, meticulously tracking your period, perhaps even meditating or attending the local yoga class.
Not to mention the indefinite amount of websites and forum you’ve been scrutinisingly consulting, the hours spent with your legs up in the air, or the different advices from friends and family you’ve taken on board. Some say you should be trying harder, some say you should not be trying at all - and dismiss your feelings with the good old “it will happen when you stop worrying about it”.
Easier said than done….however nothing seems to be working. You find yourself spinning in a perpetual brake stand - one foot on the gas, the other on the brake, seemingly going nowhere.
Month after month, the arrival of your period is NOTHING MORE THAN a confirmation that something is missing, and definitely wrong with you or your partner.
you feel like a total failure, that your body is letting you down, that you are not doing enough, and that you should be doing things differently or perhaps even wanting this baby even more. You feel guilty for past decisions, shame, stressed out, anxious, sad, in despair and in need of the right answer.
Your life after all is on hold until this baby comes iNto your life
And one pregnancy announcement after the other, you start even debating with yourself whether you are meant to become a mother.
Here is the truth my friend…..
You are way more than just your physical body.
You are mind, body and spirit.
Believe it or not, your physical reaction - not getting pregnant - frequently is nothing more than a response of your body to your mind and soul not being aligned.
What happens is that often we are convinced that we want a baby and that and we are ready to become a mother, but we forget to check with our mind and the feelings that are unconsciously holding inside of us. These feelings and resistances are most probably the reason our mind sends signals to our body that a pregnancy is not in our best interest. And our body listens diligently to our mind’s instructions, every single time.
Very often we are oblivious of these fears and resistances that are embedded in our subconscious mind. They can live within us since a very young age and govern our reproductive system.
Examples of these blocks can be “fear of giving birth”, “fear of not being able to cope as a mother”, “fear of letting someone down”, “fear of ruining a career”, or “fear of getting pregnant for whatever reason”.
It is about doing less, stress less, worry less and being more.
It is about letting your feminine energy directing you, so you can be assured that motherhood is your birthright and that your body knows exactly what to do in order to have a baby
When you function mainly from a masculine energy prospective, which is all about logic, doing and being goal DRIVEN, it can create stress in your life. And so affect our reproductive system.
If you want to optimise the functioning of your reproductive system, you have to go more into your feminine energy, which is the anti stress area: that area where we're in rest and digest, when we're in that calm, cool state. A state of deep true connection and allowing.
You realise that it is not about doing more or trying more, but it is about getting your body/mind/ spirit in touch and connected to each other. And it is about allowing your feminine energy to emerge safely and connect to your future baby.
So you can understand what fears are holding you back, unpick them and release old negative energy.
Once you become the most pure version on yourself and feel safe, your body feels safe to do what is naturally meant to do: conceive and carry a healthy pregnancy to term.
FERTILITY TRUTH 1
Your mind plays a key role
Do you remember when you were young and absolutely terrified of getting pregnant?
Remember when you could never dream to take take the foot off your job or career?
Or perhaps when you had that pregnancy scare and you promised that from then on you would only use protections?
I know then was then, and now is now. Now you luckily find yourself in a perfect lovingly relationship, have a secure job and are mature enough to rise a child. And you’re just ready to move to the next level in your life….such us having a child and becoming a mother.
But here is the thing darling: your subconscious mind still hold on to the pain related to a possible unwanted pregnancy. Your body does not know when you have changed your mind and the thought process is not automatically reversed.
However hypnosis combined with my method RAPID FERTILITY RESTORE is amazing at reversing outdated thinking.
FERTILITY TRUTH 2
Your mind and body are connected
Your mind and your body are perfectly connected to each other. Imagine your body being an efficient machine that listens to your mind’s commands. When your mind says no, your body says no too. If your mind is convinced that is not safe for you to bring a baby into your life, your body accepts that conviction as an instruction and won’t conceive.
Unfortunately most of the time we are unaware of what’s going on behind the scenes between our mind and our body. That’s because our mind takes those signals from past feelings, fears, beliefs that we might have blocked out on a conscious level.
Our conscious mind is our ‘logical and rational mind’, the one that makes us assume that just because we have sex at the right time we just get pregnant.
Our subconscious mind is instead where the fears and beliefs that can prevent our natural ability to conceive are stored. And that’s where we have to dig deeper.
Going into hypnosis is the quickest and most effective way to have access to your subconscious mind and clearly understand those fears and beliefs.
That’s why going into a hypnotic state, where you can have access to those hidden beliefs, fears and resistances is fundamental if you want to understand why your mind sends certan instructions to your reproductive system.
Those obsolete informations are like unwanted annoying weeds growing in your beautiful garden - otherwise your mind. My job is to help you eradicate those weeds and plant new positive seeds that support your perfect fertility state.
FERTILITY TRUTH 3
You are more than enough
You and your body are perfect just the way you are. You are not broken, your body is not broken, your body is not infertile and there is nothing to fix.
The society however wants us to believe that when something with us is not working as it should, we just need to get it repaired and then everything will be fine and we will experience the success we want.
In this way, the signal that we send out to the world is of perpetual scarcity and lacking. And from that place, we embark on a journey to find the right solution that works for us. Whether that solution might be taking some more supplement or medications, rather than undergoing another medical procedure. Hoping that when we eventually find what works for us and give us that positive test result that we so desperately want, we will eventually start feeling enough, fulfilled, whole and can finally breathe easily.
The reality is that you are already enough, you are already whole and you are already fulfilled, and no treatment in the world will ever give you that feeling that is already inside you, and that is the only truth.
And so when you go through your fertility journey knowing that motherhood is your birthright, that your body is perfectly fertile and detaching yourself from the how and when it will happen: you simply start trusting yourself, your body and your intuition, and that’s where the magic will happen.
You will move through your journey feeling completely aligned, connecting at a deeper level with your partner, enjoying spending time with friends and family and receiving love from everywhere.
And from that frequency of worthiness, abundance and deserves you are able to attract your desire, because your desire wants you.
I will take you to that place of worthiness, where everything comes easily and naturally for you.
FERTILITY TRUTH 4
You can create a more sustainable life
Focusing only on the end result, makes you feel like you are starting over each month and emphasises that feeling of “not being enough” that drives you to do more: such us eat more strictly, exercise more or take more supplements.
Rather than focusing on that positive test, think instead about the way you can transform into your fertility journey. Every day you have the opportunity to become someone better, someone deeper, someone more embodied in their health and fertility, someone who can deeply enjoy their life, someone who feels worthy.
Think of the amount of stress and toxic relationships you’ve been letting go along the way, think about the amount of love you are letting in.
All of this will support you in creating a sustainable life for you and your baby.
So then when your baby arrives, she’s just the cherry on top of this beautiful, fulfilling life that you are creating.
And this is so important, because we want to welcome our baby into our already fulfilled life, we don’t want our baby to be responsible for our happiness.
YOU ARE EXACTLY WHERE YOU NEED TO BE
You are not behind or too old. You are exactly where you need to be in your fertility journey.
Our subconscious mind commanding our body not to conceive is probably just protecting us from adding more stress in our life.
Until we clean up some of the factors that add stress in our life, such as weak relationships and work boundaries, our body won’t be able to conceive.
This is an amazing opportunity that life that is giving you to waking up to the woman and mother you are meant to become.
FERTILITY TRUTH 5
Believe, believe, believe
Regardless of where you are in your journey, you must believe that whatever you are doing is working out for you. Whether you are going through another round of IVF, rather than another medical procedure, or are opting for natural conception: you must have an unshakable conviction and and unwavering certainty that your body will conceive.
And it’s not just about being relaxed about it: it has all to do with being relaxed while you expect, know, believe and see that baby on the way to you.
This is exactly where I will to take you.
Client Love
“I wish I had met her at the very beginning of my fertility journey
It took me 8 years and two failed rounds of IVF before meeting Elisa. Three months after our first session I was pregnant with my baby girl. Now I am 24 weeks pregnant and I still listen to her audios every single day. She gave me so much confidence in my body. Forever grateful to her.
-Katie A.